I am having such a hard time with this :cry: Espeically after reading everyone's replies. I know she is in some pain, but to what extent, I do not know... She is only just beginning to become incontinent, but can't tell for sure because my other dog, Daisy is sick (but pretty sure it was Trixie... just don't want it to be). She is still eating and seems pretty happy at times, but mostly just lays around and sleeps. We got Daisy because we thought Trixie wouldn't last forever, and thought it would be easier on my children to have another at the time.... but Daisy has kept Trixie young. I have told myself that it will be after the holidays, I don't ever give the "girls" table food, except for the holidays, and they love it and look forward to it. So, Trixie has had her Thanksgiving Turkey Dinner, and she will enjoy a Christmas feast too.... and then we shall see :cry: